Attitude Reflections to Close Out The Year 2019- Like a Best Possie !

Hey Best Possies!


So I have a podcast ! Yup. just jumped right into that announcement lol! I am preparing to really amp my involvement on not just my blog presence but vocally and soon, physically via youtube.

I definitely am excited !!!!



Butttt… Excited ! nonetheless.

Chanting “Just Do IT” “Do it Scared”.

Yup Yup, 2020, Here I come !

Without further ado, here is the link HERE <— click the here and enjoy this latest podcast on how as someone who is constantly seeking to attain your Best Possible Self, you can close out the year and with what type of attitude…

You can also literally screen shot the above pic and find my podcast everywhere hunny, spotify, google podcast, overcast, pocketcast… you name it, I am there …for…you.

Let’s hug it out

Brief Storytime: shortly after I recorded my podcast, some blessed soul stole my wallet. Yup. You read right. My sensitive information. Gone. I panicked. I Cried. I almost got sucked in to a negativity vortex of why me why me!!???

But I bless God for perspective. And to be 1000% real with you, I listened to my podcast. Yup. Singing “Encouraggggeee Yourselllfffff…” cuz I did. I developed perspective and knew that my life, my health, my family was worth so much more than material things. I could recover all my cards and information eventually. The blessings God has given me…. priceless. And right there in that moment of the first few listens and influx of “This is Awesome Charlene!” from close friends and family, I knew that I was walking in my purpose. And I won’t stop. Not for anything.

Thank you ahead of time for listening, for supporting, for SUBSCRIBING, for believing in me. There is so much to come. Stay tuned.

Be Amazing. Be Excellent. Be Your Best Possible Self.

Peace fingers,

Awele Charlene Adinlewa

Jeremiah 1:8 “Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you and will rescue you,” declares the Lord.”

The Best Thing I did in 2019

Hey Best Possies!!!

Happy Half-wayyyy theerreee… Can you literally imagine?

ho my goodness

2019 is about to be 1/2 way DONE!!! I don’t know about you but I still remember what I was doing and where I was New Year’s Eve and Day! It was awesome…

Hubby and I. New Years Day. I’m the fireworks, he’s the cool breeze. lol!

This year has been awesome so far, and I hope it has been for you too. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENEDDDD!!!! I have friends and family that have gotten married, gotten new jobs, received promotions, seen failures and seen successes…

Guys, we have so much to reflect on ! I personally love reflecting because it gets me in an attitude of quiet where I am reminded of how GOOD God is, how much I have grown and how much I have YET to grow. I think about all the moments, all the ouch, all the ahhs, all the hmmms, and everything in between….

And with all that, I have so much zeal to press forward and KILL the goals I promised to myself when the fireworks went off in the air as the year re-set itself and became 2019.

In the meantime though, I can tell you I have done and accomplished quite a lot this year…and while I yet have a lot to do.. Here’s the Best Thing I did in 2019.

Yes!!!!!!! I’m a Mommyyyyyyyy to the most beautiful baby !!!!!!!
*cue fireworks & confetti in the air*

And just imagine… We still have h a l f the year to go !

It’s Lit!!!!!

Yes, Yes, I know. Now that she is year, my absence on the blog is no longer permissible. Orrrr is it??? I mean motherhood is a full time gig, y’all. Lol!!

Stay tuned,

Peace Fingers,

Awele C. M-A

Sidenote: A huge cheers to everyone working hard on their Best Possible Self and grinding to make this and every year their Best Possible Year ! I see youuu!!!

To everyone who has emailed or DM-ed me, THANK YOU!!!! I love replying and keeping in touch! Esp my RN buddies all over the States!

To everyone who has subscribed to my blog, THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!! Tell a friend to tell a friend ! And if youre reading this and you have NOT subscribed….. picture me staring into your soul…. like what are you doingggg…

Friday Hoorah!

Hey Best Possies!

Tell the truth… If Friday was a person, she’d be You and I’s best friend hunny! and yes I said she.. girls are totally fun. *insert iphone wink emoji*

So Cheers to Friday, and Cheers to you, Best Possie! We made it. No matter what…. You Made IT! Eyes closed, take a deep breath, and let your shoulders relax. If No One told you, You were more than a conqueror. Get the comfy slippers out and enjoy your weekend.

Totalll mood !

Until next time,

Peace fingers,

Awele Charlene M.

How to Cure Yourself from Compararitis

Hey love…

Can we be real ?

And Yes, Compararitis is a word.  Stop getting distracted.

When we hear something major about someone either in our lives or on social media, we automatically mirror it against our own life or accomplishment(s).

C O M P A R A R I T I SAn affliction of comparing oneself to images and lifestyles depicted on social media websites and life as well. Symptoms range from staring at other’s green grass instead of yours, saying yasss to other’s successes but doing the bare minimum to get yours, drooling, desiring someone else’s life, envying, and much more…


       Antonym of compararitis:  Just plain being inspired & using that motivation to do better.


We’ve all been there. Compararitis.  One click on the ‘gram icon (instagram for the old heads) and boom, it’s battle of the I’m-fabulous-and-close-to-perfect(ly filtered) pictures in perfect locations and perfect captions.  Care free smiles, fierce angles, perfect make-up, expensive looking clothes, amazing following, and you’re sitting there like “I pale in comparison”.

But you don’t.

Perspective is E v e r y t h i n g.

Purpose is Key.

Timing is so necessary.

Remember these cures to compararitis as I help you through your scrolls and trolls.

I got you best possies!

Perspective. It’s easy (so easy) to get caught up in something that is carefully curated to send a message.  Most of these pages are selling a product or image.  Most of the individuals do actually put time and effort and L O T S of money into their brand.

I know a blogger (who gave me permission to talk about this) who gets her income through the number of clicks and purchases to the brand sites she represents.  Some months, her check is over $2,000 and other months she barely gets to $500.  She embodies fabulousness but in reality, she’s doing her best to get a steady income and more sponsorship.

All  …     That  …     Glitters   …   Ain’t  ……. okay you get it. let’s move on.

Perspective.  If you are not ready for that type of life, pull the brakes on your thoughts before you find yourself in comparison lane.  Remember that famous oldie but goody; Cut Your Coat According To Your Size.  Or Pockets.  Yeah…. It applies here.  Don’t go looking for that fabulous Chloe Bag with an H&M wallet, love.  And even if you had it, come on…  Have you paid off all your other credit card bills? saved some money? given to a local charity?  I’m just saying.  The right perspective will have you checking your priorities.

Don’t get caught up, love.

And even If you are ready for that type of life, are you going to take time to study your craft (not only theirs!), your brand, your passion, your resources and work to get to your audience?

P e r s p e c t i v e:   a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view


Next is PURPOSE! I’m literally about to give away my browsing secret !

I have to go on social media with a purpose.  I’m not just out here looking for what Sally or JimBob posted.  Nah.  Oh I’ll scroll, I gotta support my people, but its super fast cuz I’m on a timer.  I have a group on social media with some of my close friends and its strictly to send all funny and hilarious memes, videos, or posts.  I love it.  With my husband, we send each other encouraging and hilarious posts.  Personally I LOVE looking up my favorite bloggers and getting inspiration on outfits, interior design, fitness, organization, and mental pick me ups for my day.  Then I’ll finally round up with my power housers like Stephen Furtick or BibleLockScreens and I’m OUTTT!

*never leave anywhere on a negative note*

P u r p o s e:   the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists



T i m i n g:    the choice, judgment, or control of when something should be done


Aye yo… you should see yourself scrolling on social media.  No seriously, one time I caught a co-worker in zombie-like fashion for over 10 minutes, walked behind him and literally ma dude was transfixed by the ‘gram **insert sound of baby laughing hysterically** lol!!!  Bent neck and all….

Y’all gotta set a TIMER or something… what’s it going to be? 10 minutes, 15 minutes, GO!  when that buzzer goes off, that’s it. Close the APP.  Go outside.  Take a Deep breath.  Look at the big wide earth God made.  Yeah, the same one that the person in the picture you were staring at was BUSY ENJOYING….. *sigh*

My dear, GO and LIVE!

I love my husband. He can go on social media fasts for long periods with zero cares.  Me, I’m not eh quite there yet. But I’m working on a total of an hour a day….cut up in 15 minute increments.  Sometimes it goes over by 1 hour a couple of minutes. What? I didn’t say I was perfect, homie.

But really, we have got to break away from the hold that is social media and really be PRESENT for the LIFE that is OURS.  There is sooo much to do.  Yes yes, come back and share your amazing vacation and adventure pictures and your love and your yummy and artistically displayed food and hilarious friends. But when you’re done, return to your life. It’s waiting for you.



You can cash me outside,

Peace fingers,


Awele Charlene



Here are some verses I found on that can help greatly;

Galatians 6:4-5 

Each of you must examine your own actions. Then you can be proud of your own accomplishments without comparing yourself to others.  Assume your own responsibility.


1 Timothy 6:6-8 

Now there is great gain in godliness with contentment, for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content.


Romans 12:2

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.


What a Week…

Stress is such a *&^%#….

Yeah I said it…

But take a deep breath, You made it to Friday…..

This weekend, let’s re-group and think of better ways to handle this thing called life…

How are your goals coming along?

How is The Best Possible You coming along?

Guess what…Even if you replied not so good, It’s okay….

There are 72 days left until 2018 !

Let’s take that time to really start mapping out what we really want ….

Seriously, M a k e  T I M E  For  Y o u T i M e 

Maybe you’ll hit your stride in day 45 …or day 21…

No matter what, I just wanted to stop by and say Hey Love..

You’re doing great.

God’s Got You

Weekends are for recalculating….

So let’s do just that…





See you in the new week


Peace fingers,


Awele Charlene