My Jus By Julie Experience !


*sheepish smile*


I’m backkkkkkk……!!!


And I have goodies and goodies to share with you!

So pull up a seat

sink into that couch

get comfy

let’s read & scroll!



I’m engaged !!!

Wait what….

I know I know….last time I was on here I was like I’m 30! whoo!! and then Trump won and we were cyber holding hands encouraging each other that this too shall pass. Lol!! But Yes!!  There are less than 90 days left until I’m ah be a MRS. to my most amazing man ever!  TRUST ME….juzzy stuff coming about this whole topic O-kay ! Yes I’m shamelessly building hype but in the mean-time I gotta look right & tight for my B I G day, you feel me?

So!  Ive been more than usual serious about my fitness routine and I wanted to, you know, kick it up a notch with a JUICE CLEANSE!!

But let me start by explaining my intentions for cleansing.

Uno.  My tummy was constantly bloated.

Months of junk eating …what?! I got engaged! Celebratory eating at several restaurants was necessary Lol!

Dos. I needed a proper cleanse.

In addition to my pudgy tummy, my skin & lips were constantly dry despite my high water intake.

Tres. I needed a re-set to feel re-energized !

and my caramel macchiato grande & Flintstones vitamins cocktail was just NOT cutting it. *judge me not*

Now I included some links here and here about juicing but it is so important guys that you please do your honest R E S E A R C H before you begin. Talk to your doctor, local registered dietician, or qualified Healthcare provider BEFORE beginning on this type of venture.

Like a proper Naija girl will say: “Me I didn’t send you oh. If you faint, you’re on your own. hmm!”

And Now for the moment you’ve all been waiting for….



The cleanse I decided to go with was one I picked right here on Groupon called Jus By Julie.

I loved several things about this company:

the look of the juice bottles   – easy grip plastic bottles that could fit in my lunch bag

the price – using Groupon of course helped the affordability factor

the time of delivery – They are true to their word on delivery day and time frame

the size and number of the bottles – 6, 16 ounce bottles a day ! Yes please!

the nutrient, calories & sugar content – I did not want to be counterproductive with my intake, after all.. this is the WHOLE point right?

The Experience

Day 1:

“Honestly,  Not Bad……”



My feelings:

I was NOT hungry at all !

I did miss the sensation of chewing however….

I actually felt an energy kick twice in one day with ZERO crashes! whoooo!!!!

I actually l o v e d 3 out of the 6 juices, 2 were o-k, and the last one was pure grass. bleh!!!

My tips

Drink 1 juice bottle every 3 hours. So I had my first bottle at 9am, and my last bottle was at 12am midnight.  I could do this because I am a nurse who works a 12 hour shift.  I was up that whole time and I needed the appropriate pacing to last my shift.

Day 2:

“Are We There Yet”


My feelings:

The reason there’s one picture here is because Day 2, all the bottles were the same except for #5 which was this AMAZINGNESS!!!!  Now I am biased because I loveeee peanut butter but my gosh, this was extremely tasteful and not overwhelming. After this I felt like I could handle several (okay maybe 2) traumas in the emergency room. Lol!!  Yasss!

Oh and I peed a lot. I felt like I was in the bathroom like 5x more than normal! but my research said this would happen.

I did break out on the side of my face and my lips peeled like crazy!! I was like uhhh new lips, who’s this? but again, research said this would happen so *shrug* wasn’t worried ! All part of DE-toxing. must’a been a lot of junk in there *shaking my head*

My energy did dip significantly but that was honestly because I was off schedule. Once I drank my PB&J bottle, I was solid.

The last juice was just like day 1: freaking gross. I almost threw up.

Day 3.

“Attttt Laaassst…..(cue Etta James)”

I woke up with several questions. Lol! Why am I doing this again? I want bacon! BaCONnn!

I longed to be this child.



My Feelings:

Again like the other days, 5 bottles remained the same except for …….#5…which unlike Day 2….this was down right…… weird…. lol!!!  This was basically ground up coconut bits soaked in healthy sugarless 0% carb rice milk or something.   I tolerated it for like 4/5 of the bottle and then I stopped & had this beauty


Lol!! Yes, I had to eat this candy to get the taste out of my mouth. And fine since we are on the topic of honesty, I had 1/2 a tangerine too.  That’s it.  That coconut was not a happy fruit in its lifetime *insert iphone sick face emoji*

Soon afterwards ladies and gentlemen,  I had my last juice and fell backwards in weakness sweet glorious victory on my bed.


I did it.

3 days

Straight Juice.


Did I detox? Yup.

My stomach felt lighter and my lips healed up days after better than before

Did I feel more energetic? Uhhhh

NOT Right at that moment of completion…lol! I’m being honest. But during the next days, I felt a new consistent energy pattern that I am grateful for.

And now…..for the question everyone kept asking me on snapchat

How much did you lose??


7.5 lbs.

Currently still down 5lbs.

Currently still on a healthy path so the effects stay long lasting.

Was it worth it?

Well you tell me….

Until next time,

Peace fingers

Awele Charlene M.

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My “Christian” Response to Trump Winning


So… has been a week and some days since he won….

I’m still here …. and so are you…

I’ll never forget my feelings watching CNN with millions of viewers around the world and I’m sure you will not either.

So what now?

Ever since that day, literally in ONE week, the world has clicked on thousands of new memes on social media. The Joe Biden memes are my favorite of course, followed by the Shirley Ceasar “I got beans, greens, potatoes..” video remixes.  All in an effort to… keep moving on… keep coping.. keep laughing….

keep living…

As a Christian it’s hard responding to negativity, and chill, I’m not saying that if you are a Christian who voted for trump you’re evil, re-lax. God still loves you. LOL! No seriously, biko (meaning ‘please’ in english), you are free to vote and express yourself. I just will never allow any hate on my page or in my life FYI.

got it? good.
got it? good.

I digress. Back to my point. So, as a Christian, it is hard dealing with negative vibes and situations in general. Most times, like literally 99% of times, it is SO easy to just boop! ignore it. Out of sight Out of Mind. Or we just don’t talk about it. “Yeah girl, thats crazy.” and move on. Yeahhhh that’ll make the problem go away. Trust me, I don’t know the right answer either.  I’ll tell you my honest to God reaction when you-know-what happened.

I went to sleep.


I woke up. I took a shower. I went to work. I was numb. I was sad. I robotically did what I do at work. I ate. I got off work. And then I was in my car ….driving…and stuck in traffic…and ultimately here in the small space of my car and bumper to bumper traffic, my thoughts become louder than a lit rock concert….

Everything started playing back. Reality started seeping in.

And I cried.

Now, chill again. I’m a gangster. I tell my friends and now you who is reading this. Gangsters don’t cry. Well, they do. Only when it counts. And this one….this time….this counted.

The reason why I cried was for people like my best friend Mo who is the most beautiful hardworking accountant and has been hoping and praying for years that her and her family have a fighting chance to become citizens one day.  I thought of what her hope must look like now…

And then it hit me.

Hold Up! *dmx voice* Wait a minute ! *sneaks dance in*

Hope? Where was my hope before? hmm… I mean yes, you put your hope in humans who prove themselves to be capable leaders. We do that every day. But what happens when what IS happening ..happens?  When we don’t trust who has been elected to be a good leader? Do I just boo hoo, drag my feet, and despair? Oh nah.

The last thing I’ll do is fear too.

To all the racists out there.
To all the racists out there

So all’s well. It is well. IT will be well.

No matter what.

Be encouraged Y’all.

Fight for what you believe in. With Love. In Love. For Love.

Stop The Hate.

Never Give Up.

Pray Hard.

Keep Bettering Yourself.

Stay Excellent.

Chin up my love.

Peace fingers,

Awele Charlene

First of all, then, I urge that petitions, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgiving be offered on behalf of all men, for kings and all those in authority, so that we may lead tranquil and quiet lives in all godliness and dignity. 1 Timothy 2:1-2 

And so, Lord, where do I put my hope? My only hope is in you Psalm 39:7

And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony Colossians 3:14

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Why I’m so Happy

*Insert long heartfelt apology here for not blogging in a while*

So! Right to it…

I turned 30 !!!

And I am incredibly happy!


I feel JoY surging through my LIFE right now. And I’m here to inject and spread that mushy feeling up and down your very veins.

Imagine me spreading all my joy on you. oh yes. *creepy smile*


The other day, someone said “You’re always So damn happy, what is wrong with you?”

Are you serious? was my response. Actually first LOL! was.

 Like I literally laughed out loud.

What’s wrong with being happy first of all?

Sureee there is so much crap on the news (I’m still working on my emergency one way ticket out of here incase Trump wins, O-Kay!). I hate the News. And sure, things I don’t plan for happen to me. Don’t be deceived. I get my share of weekly rubbish. But hey, I stay steady dodging, two-stepping out the way honey, and steph-curry-style throwing my problems into God’s inbox.


Miss me with that, devil. Swerve fool.


But I did pause later, about to shove some yummy fries in my mouth, and thought… “Poor guy, he doesn’t know me though.” He, and most, have no idea that the type of joy I have is literally soul deep.  The type of joy I have is the ever so grateful type of true joy that comes from knowing and overcoming true sadness…

At the age of 8, I lost my mother to breast cancer…

That alone is enough to rock the very foundation of any child’s life.

Months later my childhood home got destroyed by a flood (taking with it most of my childhood pics)

Months later some of my siblings were taken (by family) to another country  (we were reunited later…)

I’ve known hunger

I’ve known sickness

I’ve known rejection

I’ve known pain

And that’s the least of what I’ve been through…

This however, my dear, is not a sob story. I’ve cried enough for all the soap operas ever to be produced on TV, believe me.

This is a But God story.

If it was not for God, I would be ….I don’t know. I don’t even want to know. It’s ugly to think about. I’d rather focus on who He made me and is making me to be NOW. An incredibly delivered ….happy person.

I know Love

I love so many AMAZING people ANDDD I’m Loved by so many AMAZING people

I know Contentment.

I have so much I have worked my slightly large behind off for.

I know Zeal

 I want so much more still out of this life God has given me.

I know JOY

I have God….watchu mean…I’m winning!!

Sometimes it takes taking a peak behind you to remember why that smile on your face needs to widen up a bit more. Sometimes it takes looking at where you are and what God has brought you from to stick your chin out and grin. Sometimes….it takes a walk down memory lane to shut up and stop complaining, and just….be happy.

You could be so much more, I know my dear.

But you’re already so much more.

I wish you knew how much more.

Don’t worry. Be Happy. Like Bobby McFerrin said.

Your Best Possible You depends on it.

How I sleep at night knowing God's got me.
How I sleep at night knowing God’s got me.

Until next week….

Seriously this time

Peace Fingers,

Awele Charlene





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My Happy Place

So I had to get away … My happy place is the beach..

I take the verse about renewing your mind daily very seriously.  Like seriously, to the umpteenth power in fact.

Romans 12:2 says “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–his good, pleasing and perfect will”

Side note; you won’t know what God’s will is/how to test it/how to sense it… if your mind is cluttered so ….Mental Health Awareness Plug! Free your mind honey !  In this world, where daily B.S happens (just watch the news for an hour), You. Have.  To.  Renew.  Your.  Mind.


So off to the beach I went ! Sometimes it’s hiking, sometimes it’s listening to music while taking a walk, sometimes it’s getting a massage fit for a queen (which reminds me I’m way overdue for one), shoot, sometimes it’s sleeping ! (sleep-lovers unite!) but what-ever it is that takes your mind off the worries of this world -even for just a day – and helps you de-stress and de-clutter…. Do It.


Seriously, Do It.

Your Best Possible You Depends On It.


Do you know how I know it worked? I came back from my mini-get-away and went straight to work, right?  One hour in and my nail chips. -__-  Mind you, I have a wedding to attend this weekend. I just laughed. Easy fix. I’ll get it taken care of later.  30 minutes later, someone says something stupid ignorant thats deserving of a charlene-u-better-swerve-this-fool-now-come-back.  Again, I just laugh and say “You need a nap.” .5% shade. Not my usual 80-95%. I’m still cool. Not even 5 minutes later, I get super cramps (Eve!!) and eventually and as always, busy becomes the usual understatement it is at work. #ERLife

But through it all, I was…cool.

Cool as ever.


I kept hearing the sounds of ocean waves crashing in my ear, and pelicans and blue herons chatting and gliding all around the pier, children laughing and the wind blowing gentle massages on my skin….

*happy sigh*

Oh but peace feels so good …..but you’ve got to let yourself experience it.

And have some ice-cream while you’re at it….


You’re welcome, ; )

Until next time,

Peace fingers….

Awele Charlene

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How To Say No… #HeAintIT



Being 29 and single apparently is a tsk tsk to “society”. Hmm. Well I cannot promise that I didn’t just put my middle finger up to society  *inserts portia from RHOATL laugh* BUT I can tell you this; uhm dating in this day and age is hard honey.


church mother hmm!
church mother hmm!


For one, I don’t even think the term dating is what it used to be or even should be. There’s so much hoopla, confusion and worse, pride. It’s so sad that now we’re down to misconstrued or unsaid intentions.  “I wanna be wined and dined”  “don’t read too much into it, it’s JUST a date”  “don’t take me to the movies”  “who’s paying?” “I mean If I pay does this mean I get to “come upstairs afterwards?”


Plus Have you looked at the rate of divorce in the world today?

Listen honey bunches, I am going to take my time. I know my worth. I know what I want out of a relationship/partnership/union  ANDD  I am not here for the shenanigans. So here is my Best-Possible-Moi reference guide to knowing #HeAINTIt AND saying N-O to all the men who step up to you without respect, honor, and PURPOSE.  Let’s get it started;

1. For the over-complimenter Slick Rick who’s just interested in getting in your pants:   H-No. Spray Cockroach spray at him. LOL! Just half kidding. This is the firm “stop now”. I used to be so “nice” and would take forever saying No. Ha ! Come on love, You know better. You want better.  Tell him He needs to stop it …like yesterday. What is he telling you that you don’t know!? “You’re Hot.”  Smile and Tell him “You Right!” Don’t tap out ma boo. If he shrugs off, gets pissed and walks away, he wasn’t even interested in the first place. Voila! Roach Problem I mean Problem solved.



2. For the one who always claims to like you but never can find time:  Ha ! How do you say Nah in 3 different languages? Stop collecting cobwebs and checking your phone for his reply. Go Live your Life ! The one for you is waiting for you on the corner of MOVE and ON. And when Mr. One-of-These-Days hits you up again with the “Hey Stranger” text…. Don’t. Text. Back.  I know, I have a bag of Petty I wanted to dip from but let’s be better. Stop entertaining not-enough-ers.

Better luck next time
Better luck next time

3. For the one who sends mixed signals/Slow pokes:  You are not a broken radio antenna. Go for blunt and ask “What is this?” lol! Sorry I despise the phrase “what are we?” sounds like a sad puppy line in Titanic.  But whatever does it for you, come out and ask and be straight. Get your answer and it better not be a “let’s see how it goes” line.  Say it with me “Purpose!”

Tell him boy bye
Tell him boy bye

4. For the Come-on-Too-Strong-ers/Creeps/Weirdos:  Listen, Linda. Block them. Lol!! One trick I used to do and this is 1 of my secrets: I become a creep right back.LOL!! One time a guy said he wanted to marry me and wouldn’t leave me alone! For pete’s sake, he didn’t even know my middle name!! I texted back a long (and I mean long) prayer and the guy never texted me back. Lol! *dusts hands*  Goooood Riddance.

No way jose

But for real though, If a man is not 100% intent on honoring you for all your worth, NO is very simple and powerful.  N-O. N to tha O.  However you say it, you don’t want to be nasty (except for in rare occasions he’s missing a few brain cells). You want to be hold on to your peace and your standards. Don’t SETTLE.  Your God isn’t a God of confusion.  I’m just saying.




It’ll be worth it, honey.


Until next time,


Peace fingers,


Awele Charlene




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Just Do It

So the other day, I wanted to hike. I had the itch to just go. See, part of my goals this year as I said in my other blog post is to travel. And I just don’t mean travel like ONLY getting into a plane and ending up in another city or country, I actually mean like getting OUT of my comfort zone and going to new places ….new restaurants… new sites…. *happy sigh as I stare off into the distance*

And That’s What I did.

I just did it.

I went hiking with my best friend, Moyo, and boy was it fun. It was actually comical.  We both had never been to this location. And so you would have made a meme of us trying to figure out the map and looking at the cross roads signs like …”uhhh…yeah…” LOL!

But let me tell you; It. Was. Fun.

Voila. Life

So have you ever had an itch to do something out of the ordinary, more specifically out of YOUR ordinary.  Just Do It. Don’t wait for people to co-sign or affirm your dreams. Just Do It. Side note: Just be safe. LOL! and don’t hurt anyone. (You know you gotta put a psa for the crazies these days hehe).

                                                                                 But Be Happy !
                                                       The World Is Yours For The Conquering.
This is how i feel everyday. Sitting on top of the world

Afterwards, we ate at Mookie’s, a barbecue spot to definitely write home about.  The food was soooo good but Ohhh the looks we got. Even the drive home was a mini music jam fest. It was such a beautiful day.

Me and My best friend for life

 Laughs, new places, catching up, music, encouragement, great food, memories, great nap. The End.

Perfect Day.

Until Next Time,

Peace Fingers,

Awele Charlene

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Hashtag Goals! How to Have a Great Year !

Hey Lovely!

So I don’t know about YOU but I have been having a FREAKING Fantastic Year So Far!

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That’s Luke Smallbone of For King and Country ! and me cheesing so hard ! YES!!


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My Life As a Trauma Nurse…Everything!


Me and My Bestie Nik on top of a mountain in LA
Me and My Bestie Nik on top of a mountain in LA


Yes it is only February but I have literally been hitting strides with my goals in every area.   Of course my year has not been without its challenges. *phew!* but Philipians 2:14 says to

Do everything without complaining or arguing

and that means “Doing Life”

Let’s not even really get into the complaining or arguing part of that verse in this post cuz that’s like me figuring out how to NOT scream while fire-ants dance around my feet …..let’s just get right into How You can have a GREAT Year (so far) too!!!

*First, What do you want out of this year?



If you’re just content with waking up everyday and just “seeing how it goes”…. I’m sorry, uhm…. I feel bad for you…. like just picturing that just made my vision become one zombie-like black and white picture. Womp freaking womp.

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Soooooo What Do You REALLY Want Out of 2016?


 I have quite an extensive list.

Most of it is between God and I but here, I’m feeling like Santa so I’ll share some:


Travel a lot


 $Save a lot of money


Be So Excellent at work : )


G i v e   B a c k


Get abs ! yes you will see my before and after picture! Awoo! **300 army voice**


And So far So Great !  I think the key is really knowing what it really is YOU not your mom, dad, best friend, sibling but what YOU want out of your year and then Secondly, WRITE it down…


Habakuk 2:2 says Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it”

                  I write down all my goals and that process makes it either realistic or maybe not so realistic…. like for example….can I really lose 20 lbs in 3 months? yeah probably… Now knowing myself, will it stay off? yeah probably not. But if I make a step by step How-to… I find that I would rather make a lifestyle of eating healthy and having a routine fit lifestyle and that way I can lose and keep the weight off …

*Writing what you want down on paper, a board, a journal, makes goal-setting exciting…

It’s no longer just a thought in your head.

It’s R-E-A-L!

Seriously, try it !

*Finally….Pray about it and then just DO it…

Like I’m serious.

STOP talking about it already. Just take step 1. whatever that 1 is. For me, it’s blogging at 1:17am in the morning and setting a “publish by” time.  No more “Is this the right time?”…. YES IT IS THE RIGHT TIME!  I promise you that was a loving yell.

But yup, In summary :

  1. ask yourself : What Do YOU want out of 2016??
  1. Write It Down! – This will help you realize what is realistic and make steps
  1. Pray and Just Do it !  – No procrastination. YOU Can Do This!

Until my next post, I hope you get to dreaming big because

                             2016 is gonna be a GREAT YEAR!!!!

Peace fingers,

Awele Charlene

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And The Award for Best Month Ever Goes To….

Picture this right here



It’s the group New Edition and *stay with me!* They are walking up to you to sing “Can you Stand the Rain?” click here to hear it while you keep reading)

Now in my best deep falsetto voice:

                                              I’m sorry I havent been writing

                                                 It’s been tough you know….

                                        I had to go out there in that big cold world…

                                                    and make a dollar or two… 

                                                       or maybe it was more..

                                                    But what I’m trying to say…

                                                 Baby Can you Stand The Rain…

                                     Cuz I’m back.. I might have been goneee….

                                                               But I’m back….


*dramatically slides in the rain*

Okay fine…. *stop the music*

Yes, *sigh* as usual, I have been MIA

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hoping this cute puppy helps my case

       Yes, *sigh* as usual, I have been MIA

              But heyyyy…. *awkward smile* Happy New Year!   Happy “New Year New Me” has sailed, maybe?   Happy New Month of February!!!

I have been just Loving Life. Living Life. And LEARNING a lot about Life.

And yes, my Purpose through this blog is to spread my lessons and even though they have not been as timely as I would like……I’m working on that.  I have been just Loving Life. Living Life. And LEARNING a lot about Life.  But heyyyy…. *awkward smile* Happy New Year!   Happy “New Year New Me” has sailed, maybe?   Happy New Month of February!!!

I think that’s important. The reality that I am so short of perfection, yet I’m striving.

                                            Aren’t we all though….



So quite a few changes are going to be made in 2016. And for all the loyals, Its going to be big and fabulous.  Just wait on it.   I’m really working to improve #BPM on a whole new scale.  Sometimes I want to shut down the blog and come back when I’m ready but when is anyone ever “ready”?  *insert church lady “hmmm that was deep chile'” here*  I know that God is using me even in my unreadiness and it’s alllll about the journey so yeah, walk with me.


Okay so what’s the Best Month Ever….

October !… duh

October was the BEST AMAZING Month EVER!!!



LOL!! I know we are in February so like…that doesn’t make any sense… to youuu maybe. But okay let me explain. So I turned 29! Yes this is my last year in my twenties….

cutie baby crying

And while I’m so excited….oh hol’ up ha ha I meant to use a happy baby not a crying baby  *cleans tears on my face* Lol!! But anyways I have so much to DO !!  I am so excited and ready to TURN this New Year of not just 2016 but my year of 29 OUT!! Let’s do this, Charlene! Let’s Live Life on a Super Amazing Note!  Already I’m off to a crazy awesome start!!!

  1.  My travel game is so on fleek (I hate that word).  I was blessed to go to the beautiful Puerto Ricooo and the famous El LaY (LA) all with my besties….isn’t God good?
2. My give-back mode has also been A-mazing!  Phew! My friends and I gave over $100 in Gift cards, Food, and Toys to an amazing charity in December ! and in January we collected blankets for the homeless !

what a blessing to be a blessing
what a blessing to be a blessing
  1. I have friends doing amazing things!! like graduating…or getting promoted….or doing well in school….or being superstars at work…. or getting engaged !  *scream!*
    my bestie got her MPH! Yessss!!!

4. did i mention my brother who is also my BEST-FRIEND also got engaged…

my first best friend in life is marrying his best friend for life 🙂

Like My Life is on a 100 right now!!!


OF course there are downs….here and there…. but who doesn’t go through downs? as the saying goes, it makes you appreciate the Ups, right? I’ll rap about it in another blog.

This is just to say ….like Mase..(again..)  I’m backkkkkk….heyyyyyy

#Luckygirlseries #Blessed #BestpossibleMoi

Until next time,

Peace fingers,


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Reflecting on September

I thoroughly enjoyed September. Did I meet every goal? A good portion. I mean I worked hard, I gave back, I enjoyed amazing company, but best of all…..I learned.

A lot.

Here are random clips from my musings lately ….

Musings: a period of reflection or thought 

Disclaimer: As usual, this is me being open. Judging is never welcome here. Just Love, Smiles & Giggles, and Lots of Growth.

So enjoy….

“Discipline really sucks.”

“Excellence requires a step above average. And quite frankly, sometimes, I just want to be average.”

“I mean how can I possibly squeeze in working out, going to work, cooking, cooking healthy mind you, maintaining a blog, maintaining myself, checking up and doing things with and for my seemingly 1000+ family and friends… Lord..”

“Social media be lying…”

“Somethings gotta give…”

“Doesn’t always something give…get left behind…”

“Sometimes it is easier to just be average. But it really is the desire for more…for better… that makes one do more… “

“Structure…Structure is what I crave…Better structure…”

“Man I need a life coach or something…”

“For free…”

“I’m really blessed.”

“Am I good christian?”

“Do I exemplify Christ in ALL I do…? because a lot of people sure do irritate me”

“I’m not perfect”

“I’m trying though…*sigh*”

“Why are some people intentionally horrible? like mean? spiteful?…like did you just hear yourself say that stupid thing?…”

“Do people think before they talk?? before they act?”

“I need to work on my patience.”

“I miss my mommy.”

“I love love fall…pretty brown leaves falling everywhere…”

“I read somewhere that trees teach us to let dead things go… how accurate.”


“letting dead things go…lol…sounds about right…”

“Dead relationships…dead promises….dead memories…”

“let the hurt die, Awele..”

“2016 is almost over…my word..what a year…”

“and I still have a lot to do…”

“October is about to be so live.”


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                                                                          this is one of my favorite apps on my phone

Until next time,

Peace fingers,


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We rocked it out August!

Hiiii loves!!


The year is almost over!!

**iphone emoji shocked face!**

Lol! Question 1.) why do I always like to scream? 2.) you guys can tell I have an iphone and I use my emoji’s quite often right?


Okay! Right to it! How was your August?? Yes, We’re still on the Best Possible Me Monthly Check-in and I really hope you all are enjoying your Year so far ! Seriously it is my hope and joy that Month by Month you experience amazing things, people, places, food… just Amazingness all around ! #BPM Yasssss!

So, July was crazy awesome right? Click here and read all about it if you haven’t! But guys, seriously, going into the month, I was nervous… like What if…? Trust me I know you all think that too.  What if this month doesnt work out? What if work is harder than I thought? What if  I am not financially secure? Just what if!??  But thank God I remember that duhh, I serve a God that tells me time and time again not worry about anything but to pray over everything.

           “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God”    Philippians 4:6

Keeping this verse and others too in my mind, I declared over August that it would be a month of PEACE and JOY! and boyyyy was it!!   So here were my goals, and hey now ! I accomplished 100% of them ! Whooo!!!!!!

Personal Goals

  • Go somewhere new – I went to an amazing movie theater with friends and the experience was wonderful!  It was like I was in bed. with my blanky. and a button to push for unlimited popcorn. Myyyy my my.  How come I never knew about this before?  two thumbs up !!!

    what an experience. Fun!
    blurry but what an experience. Fun!
  • Do something new – Paint Night – Check out my skills tho! This is on sale for $499.99. Let me know if you’re interested. LOL!!  okay im half kidding.

    Lil’ Picassos. Mi amours !
  • Meet someone new– heyyy new friends at work !  A genuine smile and “how are you” goes a long way

For Others

  • Help someone new – While I could not physically participate in the Homeless Initiative, my amazing roomie held down the fort and created over 100 goodie bags for the homeless!!  It was awesome!!! I also kept snacks in my car for anyone I saw with a sign who maybe needed some food.  This works if you do not feel comfortable giving money but check with your local authorities because sadly, some states are making it illegal to feed the homeless.  *sad face*.

– I also helped my co-workers !

Giving is so much fun. You end up being SO blessed as well as blessing someone
  • Support my friends – A friend and an awesome brother to me had a comedy performance in Jersey and I as well as my friends supported him. It was a hilarious night to say the least.  I also had a ball attending a beautiful friend’s bridal shower. The countdown is on, Abby!!

    This guy is a star !
    This guy is a star !
So happy for the Bride-to-be! Nigerian Weddings are always a blast !
So happy for the Bride-to-be! Nigerian Weddings are always a blast !

For Family

  • Go above and beyond – If I saw a need, I stepped up.  Whether it was getting groceries for an aunt, surprising my sisters with lunch, listening to a friend in need, staying past clock-out time at work, I kept praying for opportunities to do more ! and God did not disappoint.
  • Family time – Family time is everything to me and I loved my breakfast/lunch dates with my sisters!  plus I took my cutie siblings, JJ and Armani to the movies and they loved it!
  • sibling love
    My hearts.

Whoo!!! I feel so accomplished and I truly enjoyed my August! It was fantastic !! Memories ontop of memories. I am so grateful for this life God has given me, truly. Now your goals might have been just one simple thing or it could have been a long laundry list. Whatever the case might be, I encourage you to get out there and really ENJOY life !  Setting goals does not have to be stressful and you can start out light.

There are so many places in your city to be explored, people to meet, quests to conquer, and FUN to be had…. and it’s alllll waiting on you.


You Ready?

Hey now, that’s the spirit.

I’ll see you later for BPM September Edition.

In the mean time,

Peace fingers,


watch the August reel here !

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